Sometimes they're personal. Other times they involve a group. And yet other times they're corporate struggles.
2019 pulled the rug out from under me at a time I least expected it, and it literally knocked me to the ground. It was a deeply personal trial that I spoke little of to anyone, other than a few safe people. And my family suffered greatly--in fact we're still working our way out of the pit we all found ourselves in after a series of physical, emotional, and spiritual attacks on all of us.
Yet as I looked around me, I could hardly believe my eyes. I personally witnessed so many unthinkable things happening all around me, people making stupid impulsive decisions resulting in huge consequences, Christian friends and family abandoning their marriage vows for lifestyles they themselves once would have told you wouldn't attract them in a million years. Spiritual warfare was intensifying. I sensed it deep within me. The Church was under attack, specifically marriage.
Little did I know that 2019 was only a preparation for what 2020 would bring.
I'm so thankful I had/have safe people in my life to turn to, people who just listen, encourage, and pray.
I'm most thankful for the safest One of all. My Rock and my Refuge. The One who sees me, who asks me to tell Him my story, and who then asks me where I'm going, the One who reminds me that nothing has happened in my life without a purpose. I can't just quit or wallow in misery. I have to get back on my feet and keep moving forward, no matter what. Without a safe person, my troubles stay stuck inside me, poisoning my heart, embittering my soul, and I'm unable to heal. I'm unable to see any hope ahead.
Just the other day, one of those safe people reminded me that by sharing my story and my pain, she found comfort in my words just a few months later when she found herself in a very similar situation. Her comment immediately brought back a Scripture I'd just read that very morning.
That morning as I read through the Bible study I'm leading in my church, Into the Light (by Mary DeMuth), a verse that I'd read hundreds of time stood out to me in a new way.
2 Corinthians 1:5 in the NASB states:
For just as the sufferings of Christ are ours in abundance, so also our comfort is abundant through Christ.
When our sufferings increase, so does our comfort. It is abundant (abounding, over and above). Some translations say it overflows, meaning we have more than enough for ourselves. That added comfort overflowing out of our own cup is meant for us to pass on to someone else.
The next verse states:
But if we are afflicted, it is for your comfort and salvation; or if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which is effective in the patient enduring of the same sufferings which we also suffer.
God has enough comfort available for every trial I go through, and each trial in my life has a purpose in someone else's life.
But the key is doing the internal work necessary, to take our pain to the Safe One, to work through all our junk and receive that divine comfort. Without it, we stay stuck. And our story never finds its purpose. We can't ever be that safe place for someone else to find comfort until we ourselves find healing in Christ.
Once we've done that, we can be that empathetic listener who just listens first before offering advice. We can then offer hope and encouragement that they can grab hold of, pointing them to the One who offers abundant comfort to get us through and push us forward. We can be confident in our purpose, leading them to understand that God can redeem anything and use it for His glory. We can exemplify strength that only comes from above, giving testimony that God's power rests on our weaknesses, not on our strengths. We can embody the fruit of the Spirit because the Spirit resides within us and helps us show love characteristics that are not always natural to us.
But it all starts with knowing our safe place, our Rock, the One who is always on the throne, no matter what is going on. He sees. He hears. He knows.
Right now, despite many of us still in the midst of personal trials, we find ourselves in the middle of many corporate trials, as well. Satan is working tirelessly against the Church, doing all he can to divide us--by keeping us apart from one another due to COVID and using a political war to disrupt what unity we thought we had among us. You may find a bit of truth out there, but it's scattered amongst so many lies and tons of misinformation, missing context, and only partial truth. Suddenly there are experts on every corner with differing opinions, constantly attacking anyone who disagrees. Christians shaming Christians, using Scripture out of context as a weapon, meanwhile naively supporting anti-Biblical agendas. One sin elevated above all, dismissing all other sin as unimportant at this time. It's disgusting, and it's exactly what Satan wants. To turn the Church against itself.
I'll admit that I'm overwhelmed and a bit terrified with all the information and misinformation coming at me from every angle. It's easy to cower in fear and not know where to turn or who to listen to. It's easy to get sucked in and even to join in on the blame and shame game. Social media went from being a comforting, encouraging place with church services and Bible verses online everywhere you looked to being one of the most hateful, destructive, anxiety-producing places in a matter of about two months. We can follow it and wonder what's going on, or we can go to our safe place and find Truth that stands firm, Truth that doesn't waiver or change. Truth and also comfort.
I'm thankful for the suggestion and reminder from my pastor's wife to not let my phone or my device or any outside influence have any part of my mind before I open the Word of God each morning to find Truth. If God's Word isn't the first thing we allow to take root in our mind each and every day, we're in trouble. Not only do we find truth, but we find comfort amidst all of these trials. And when we find comfort, we also find hope that every trial we face still has purpose. God is still on the throne.
He sees all. He hears all. He knows all. He's our safe place, and when we find our comfort in Him, He equips us to be a safe place for someone else.
The world can overwhelm me if I let it. Or I can allow God to lead me through it, one trial at a time, equipping me to then comfort and walk beside others through their trials, one person at a time.
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