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I've been married to my husband, Michael, for almost 25 years. I'm a mom to a biological son and an adopted son from Colombia, and I'm also a spiritual mom to my adopted son's older brother, who I claim as a son in my heart. I'm bilingual and love to work with and relate to Spanish-speaking children and families. I've been a teacher to students from all sorts of backgrounds and cultures for the last 20+ years. I'm also an author and a certified Biblical counselor. I'm in a new empty nest season in a new location far from where I raised my boys, so I'm definitely in a stage of rediscovering myself, my interests, and my purpose.

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Sunday, August 13, 2023

Officially starting year 21 of teaching

At 7:00 tonight, ten students will arrive at New Song Mission to begin the 2023-24 school year. Five boys (three returning) will move into the Boys' Home with Jacob, Nicky, and their 3 little boys, while five girls will move into the Girls' Home with Jeremy and Maddie. All ten of these students came for camp this summer and are already familiar with the home they'll be living in and the houseparents that will be caring for them. Tomorrow morning they'll show up in the classroom to begin a new school year together. These students encompass grades 1-8 and include several sibling pairs and other familial relationships. This will be the most students we've ever had at New Song at one time. 

Please be in prayer for all ten students, a first grader, two third graders, two fourth graders, a fifth grader, three sixth graders, and an 8th grader. They will stay at New Song all week, return home on Friday, and will then come back again the following Sunday to repeat the cycle. They will all go through many different emotions ranging from excitement, nervousness, separation anxiety, and grief. Mondays are usually a hard transition day after leaving home on Sundays, and Fridays are just as emotional as they are very anxious about going back home. Sometimes that's a good anxiety, sometimes it's a really hard anxiety. Sometimes they can't wait to get home, while sometimes they hate leaving the safety and security that they find at New Song. 

Please be in prayer for Jacob and Nicky, who are starting their second school year as houseparents at New Song. They did a phenomenal job with the boys and are excited to welcome three of them back, along with two new students. Please also be in prayer for Jeremy and Maddie, who are going to be houseparents for the first time. They both come with tender hearts for the Lord and a deep compassion for children. Jeremy also has a fun sense of humor that can lighten the mood in any situation. They will be welcoming five girls into their home coming from a wide age range. Pray for their patience with the kids, with themselves, with our team, and with each other. Being houseparents wasn't anywhere on their radar, but it's been so clearly evident that God had this planned for them to do this year. We are more than grateful to God for bringing them and for Him opening the door to having girls back on campus. 

Please also be in prayer for me and Julie, their teachers, as we attempt to guide these kids to grow academically in a room full for so many different grade levels, amidst many different voices of helpers rotating in and out of the classroom. It's definitely a big learning curve for me to not only have so many grade levels together, but also to not be the only one in charge. 

Please keep our New Song founders, Bob and Lisa, in your prayers to have constant wisdom and discernment about decisions needing to be made, good relationships and communication with donors and our surrounding community, and filling in any gaps that happen on a daily basis. Pray for Bob as he takes the students back home every Friday and then picks them up again on Sundays. Pray for Lisa as she temporarily fills in for our vacant office manager position, and pray for God to bring the right person to fill that position quickly. 

My chosen classroom decoration this year is a butterfly, with the theme verse being Romans 12:2 about being transformed by the renewing of our minds (transformed coming from the same word as the metamorphosis/complete change that a butterfly goes through). At New Song, our focus is heart transformation through Biblical discipleship rather than behavior modification. The butterfly is the symbol for the Biblical Counseling course I've been going through, so that's why it inspired my classroom decor for the year. 





Saturday, August 5, 2023

Empty Nest Take 3

I've watched my boy go back to Dallas three times now since I moved here a year ago. Words cannot describe how much I cherish every moment with this kid, especially knowing this was his last summer break as a student. I'm so thankful he chose to spend it with us here in Columbus, working with his dad and uncle. So many incredible memories made. In one week's time, he was able to see 16 out of his 18 cousins, missing the two oldest. I love how all the little ones look up to him and how the older ones respect him. I love how dedicated he is to family and how open and flexible he is to jump from place to place, group to group, family to family. I love how a simple deck of cards can lead to hours of fun together as a family. Most of all, I love the depth and richness of conversation I can have with him when a situation calls for it. There's nothing fake about that kid, and there's no need to beat around the bush. 
Only God knows where life will steer after graduation this coming year, so I definitely treasure all these summer memories in my heart. 

Here are some cherished moments with my sweet boy, in no particular order. 

First ever Mom/Son road trip to Pennsylvania, 
over 1200 miles in a Mustang together

Lunch in West Virginia

Hanging out with both Texas and Pennsylvania cousins


The "every 6 years or so" traditional picture of David and his cousin Shawnee

PA and Texas cousins pic

Handling chickens for the first time

Getting fresh lemonade at the Green Dragon 
(my favorite place to hang out on a Friday in Lancaster County, PA)

Getting some fresh whoopie pies

Experiencing the culture of Lancaster County

Driving through the tunnels on the Pennsylvania Turnpike


and making a lot of noise!


Such a pretty drive through all the mountains in Pennsylvania

Cousin time in Michigan. 
They always pulled David along for the ride when they wanted to be brave.

Helping Dad get his truck ready for the dunes. 

Driving one truck while Dad drove the other. 

Always the one to take the selfies I begged for

I love how my two adult sons so eagerly jumped in the back of the truck for a family road trip and vacay in Michigan.

Jumping in to serve at church with Mom and Dad 
(we serve on the hospitality team once a month to clean up the coffee bar)


Playing games all summer long

We thoroughly enjoyed having one of his friends visit

Family dinners and get togethers at Matt and Chrissy's house

Joining us at a Community Group social, after spending two days there with his dad to help clean up after a tornado and fix some boards on their deck

Fourth of July fun!



Fun at the county fair

Going on rides with the little cousins


Talking to the goats

Enjoying the view from the deck he had just built with his dad



Fishing with dad and the cousins



More county fairs
First time eating elephant ears!


More goats

Just a random trip to Walmart

Working on the kitchen, making Mom happy.


A little mini-golf course we found



State Street Taco Tour, trying out all the taquerias in town, getting to know our new Community Group friends






Grandma and Uncle Mark came for a visit!


A day in Nashville, visiting all the cute little shops 
and then ending with eating our Subway sandwiches out on the tailgate

Going to the races in Bloomington

Though I'm super excited for him to start his senior year, 
I sure wish that pretty car didn't have to drive so far away to get there.